Get some CONFIDENCE!!

"Scientifically, a situation can only be judged after the aim has been achieved or not. Confidence can be a self-fulfilling prophecy, as those without it may fail or not try because they lack it, and those with it may succeed because they have it, rather than because of an innate ability." - Wikipedia.

Oh how I love the Wiki. Did you just read that excerpt? Its about confidence. And let me tell you something - you need confidence in life. I myself suffer from feelings of self doubt and paralyzing worry, but those feelings will get you nowhere. Its all about having the confidence to go out and get what you want. You need to believe in yourself!

Its been tried and true - if you think you can, you can - if you think you cant, you cant. If you don't have it - then fake it till you can make it. All in all, you only have ultimate control over yourself - and if you cant believe in yourself - then what can you believe in.

People are drawn to confidence. Its attractive, its fun, its comforting. It brings a level of positivity and energy. Being confident will change your life. Listen up.....



In my opinion - confidence would be having a better body and being hotter and more attractive, combined with being an effective speaker, being funny and charismatic - it also means being honest and trustworthy and understanding. Basically, your self confidence is all based on how you see yourself and what you imagine would make you better and therefore more confident.

In order to be more confident - you really need to get that negative junk out of your head, its no bueno. Second, it helps if you are working towards some goals. But, here are some tokens of wisdom to get you started on your missh to a more positive mind - get pumped on life and the thought of having unbreakable confidence.

“Don't wait until everything is just right. It will never be perfect. There will always be challenges, obstacles and less than perfect conditions. So what. Get started now. With each step you take, you will grow stronger and stronger, more and more skilled, more and more self-confident and more and more successful.”

- Mark Victor Hansen

“Getting ahead in a difficult profession requires avid faith in yourself. That is why some people with mediocre talent, but with great inner drive, go so much further than people with vastly superior talent.”

- Sophia Loren

“The real secret to total gorgeousness is to believe in yourself, have self confindence, and try to be secure in your decisions and thoughts.”

- Kirsten Dunst





Other people’s opinion of you does not have to become your reality.

Self confidence is the key to the universe.

Life isn’t about finding yourself. Life is about creating yourself.

It is not the mountain we conquer but ourselves.




You gain strength, experience and confidence by every experience where you really stop to look fear in the face. You must do the thing you cannot do.

I am not a has-been. I am a will be.

Put your future in good hands - your own.

Even if you haven’t encountered great success yet, there is no reason you can’t bluff a little and act like you have. Confidence is a magnet in the best sense of the word. It will draw people to you and make your daily life.. and theirs.. a lot more pleasant.

Know yourself and you will win all battles.

- Sun Tzu

When you allow yourself to begin to dream big dreams, creatively abandon the activities that are taking up too much of your time, and focus your inward energies on alleviating your main constraints, you start to feel an incredible sense of power and confidence.

- Brian Tracey



Get with it people - don't spend another second of your life doubting yourself. Get some confidence and KNOW that you can do what ever you set out to do. YOU are the only one holding yourself back. The possibilities are endless.